Description: In the pressure of college entrance exams, what distinguishes kids who grow healthily and achieve self-set goals? Pediatric psychiatrist Hyo Weon Kim, drawing on 24 years of experience, identifies "parent-led parenting" as the root of anxiety and apathy, advocating "self-determination" as essential for teens. Through cases, she analyzes how grades-focused management exhausts kids' minds, structured in 4 parts: realities of deficient kids, competitive classrooms, mental health issues, and parental strategies.