Description: Unexpectedly, all these pursuits and ideals, in the end, or endless sadness and disappointment. Everyone wants to know "Why is it so?" Beginning with the answers provided by the world, Dr. Tingyi Yang takes a headwind view of the narcissistic personality, trauma, and victimization, and cuts right to the heart of interpersonal conflict - the illusion of "I." Starting from the friction of interpersonal relationships, this book accompanies readers to see the root causes of hurt and pain, and to resolve interpersonal conflicts. Most importantly, through these necessary traumas, together we can step out of the great illusion on earth, embrace love, and be free.