Description: It's not about giving up, it's about taking it slow. True strength is being able to stay comfortable in the face of competition. Have you already worked too hard, but are you still afraid that you're not good enough? Are you afraid that your grades won't be impressive and your career will be eliminated? Adler research authority Ichiro Kishimi offers a soothing antidote to ordinary people. Don't let winning or losing, rankings, and performance determine your value. You don't have to always be at the forefront to live a stable life. In this era where everything is about being "outstanding," being ordinary has become the most unacceptable identity. From school rankings, workplace performance to the glamorous display on social media, we are being invisible compared to others.