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Is This Really Love?: Recognizing When You're in a Coercive, Controlling, and Emotionally Abusive Relationship--And How to Break Free

Contributor(s): Aguirre, Leah (Author), Neal, Avery (Foreword by)

ISBN: 9781648485480

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

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Pub Date: July 1, 2025

Dewey: 362.8292

Lexile Code: 0000

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Target Age Group: NA to NA

Physical Info: 0.50" H x 8.80" L x 5.90" W ( 0.50 lbs) 152 pages

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Description: Coercive control and emotional abuse create an unequal power dynamic--giving the perpetrator power and creating anxiety, confusion, self-doubt, fear, and a sense of entrapment for the victim. This trauma-informed guide spotlights the red flags of coercive control, and provides tools to help readers break free from toxic love relationships and gain clarity, autonomy, and control of their lives.

Brief description: Leah Aguirre, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker practicing in San Diego, CA. She works primarily with individuals who have experienced complex trauma, including childhood abuse, domestic violence, and dating violence; and provides trauma-based treatment, including eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR). Aguirre contributes to Psychology Today, and has been featured in major media such as Bumble, GQ, Reader's Digest, and Hello Giggles.

Review Quotes: "This book is a must-read for anyone who wants to break the cycle of falling for coercive, controlling, or emotionally abusive romantic partners. With expert research, guidance, and personal stories, Leah Aguirre's book guides readers to heal, reconnect with themselves, and make sure their next relationship is healthy and loving."
--Lily Womble, author of Thank You, More Please; and founder of Date Brazen--Lily Womble

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